A Long, Lonely Journey: Loving a Spouse Who is Living with Dementia

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Thursday, December 14, 2023

Again, December

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  I am not a stamper, but I’ve used this stamp multiple times this year. It reads: sometimes this time of year is just hard. In amongst the ...
Friday, October 13, 2023

Bittersweet

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Why bittersweet, I wonder, not sweetbitter? How did this compound noun come to be created in this order, putting painful first and pleasurab...
Tuesday, October 10, 2023

Random Thoughts on Bravery

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Thankful Grateful Blessed I have discovered that I am marking the passage of years by the appearance of this sign in Doug’s care home. Tha...
Thursday, September 21, 2023

A path divided

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“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood . . .” Frost’s The Road Not Taken was a grade school standard when I was a child, and I’m surprised tha...
Monday, August 28, 2023

Too Late

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As my great decluttering effort continues I am still finding scraps of paper with notes from Doug - often something as ordinary as a shoppin...
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Saturday, August 5, 2023

On this day in history . . .

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August 4th, 2012 Eleven years ago Doug was full of energy, exceptionally happy . . . and so was I.  This photograph is full of stories about...
Monday, July 24, 2023

Closed Doors (Things I Cannot Know)

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There are questions I wish I’d asked my grandparents while they were still alive. There are questions I wish I’d asked Dad. I have recently ...
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My husband and I recited our wedding vows in August 2012, agreeing to love and cherish each other in sickness and in health. We didn't know there was sickness already. We never imagined that early onset dementia would define our marriage. In May 2013 he was formally diagnosed with Mild Cognitive Impairment. “It's NOT mild!!” I wrote to my sister . . . ah, had I only known how mild it was. I could list all things my intelligent, hard-working, capable, adventurous husband can no longer do - but to what purpose? It would be easy to feel sorry for us - but that won't change what is. I am a witness to his life, I treasure his memories, and I love him. His is not my story to tell, and I can’t speak to the reality of living with dementia except in my role as wife and caregiver. I've made mistakes along the way - but we've had lots of good moments too.
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